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Sailing Along the Life of Single Parenthood

Thank you Pharmacy

Thank you to my pharmacy for moving into this century and beginning to use pharmacy automation so that our prescriptions are automatically renewed, and I can just come in and pick them up each month instead of having to remember to call first.  This is going to make my life so much easier.

Yes, I received this notice today in the mail from my pharmacy, and I’m so excited. I’ve avoided moving to the national chain pharmacy in our town as I wanted to continue to support the small businesses in our community, but I have wished for a few modernizations, and this one is great! It seems I always forget to call, and then I have to stand around and wait when I go in to pick up my prescriptions.  No longer. If this works, I should be able to just go to the drive-thru window, and my prescription should automatically be ready!

Sad that something so simple makes me excited? Maybe, but I am going by tomorrow to put our prescriptions as auto renewals to make my life just a little easier.  YEA!

Baby Shower!!

Have I shared with you that I’m going to be a grandmother soon? Toby is due September 6, and we are currently planning my daughter’s baby shower.  The first thing was deciding on a date/location.  How would have known that would be such a hard decision, and I’m now worried he might arrive early and that our shower is too late!  I hope not!

Then we had to get my daughter registered at a few stores and pick a shower theme. We decided to go with her nursery theme of jungle/safari.

Next we had to pick out invitations and get those sent out. We opted to do a combo of inviting via Facebook and paper invitations via mail to those that are not big Facebook users.

And now we are looking for some great games and how to entertain everyone.  I found out today that a good friend of mine has made her a diaper cake!  YEA!

Who would have thought that planning a baby shower would be so fun (I usually dread even going to baby showers)?!

Back to School: Background Screening School Volunteers

Guest Post By Bill Tate

As the back to school season swings into full gear this fall, there are many opportunities for adults to volunteer and support school activities. Volunteers lend valuable time and assistance to our school systems, and while the majority of school volunteers are law abiding role models for our nation’s children, unsavory adults sometimes come into the mix. Predators, or “wolves in volunteers’ clothing,” can be quite wily at finding ways to be near children. When the infamous bank robber, Willie Sutton, was asked why he stole from banks, he said, “Because that’s where the money is.”

Individuals who work closely with children, whether it is a teacher or a volunteer, a coach or cafeteria or maintenance worker, should be subject to background screening before their interaction begins. Most of us assume that every adult working closely with our children is carefully vetted by the schools with which they are associated.

The practice of background checks for school employees is standard issue for all employees with access to children. Background checks reduce organizational liability and help protect children. So why should this practice differ with school volunteers? Depending on the role of the volunteers and the level of supervision they will have, many believe school volunteers should be subject to the same screening criteria as any other school employee. While not universal, more and more school districts across the country are adopting policies mandating that volunteers who interact with students must go through a criminal background check first. School districts in Charlotte, Nashville, Seattle, and San Antonio, for example, actively screen all volunteers who will interact with students.

However, such policies are not in place in all school districts. Some schools are concerned that background checks on volunteers will reduce volunteer involvement. But every school needs to carefully consider who they allow to interact with their students – on school grounds and at school sponsored activities. Background checks on school volunteers may reveal that someone has a criminal history or is living under an alias. Most parents don’t want volunteers who have misdemeanor and felony convictions at their school.

It is important that parent volunteers don’t become offended when asked to go through a background check. A comprehensive screening policy should dictate that everyone interacting with the students be screened – even if they are a parent of a current student. Most parents will understand this need and will support the school district’s commitment to student safety.

Parents should inquire about the background screening policy at their child’s school. This will allow parents to better understand the school’s position on the issue and what will be required of them if they have the opportunity to volunteer. If there is no background screening policy for volunteers, ask for one. It is important that schools establish criteria for background checks, and guidelines for unsupervised access to children. What level of access is the volunteer given? Are they alone with children in the classroom? Are they transporting students in a vehicle? Are they acting as the primary student supervisors on overnight trips?

As a parent and human resources professional, I believe that all concerned parents should be active in ensuring that a background screening process is in place for all people who come into contact with their child at school. There is nothing more important than the safety and security of our children. As our children return to school this fall, I recommend that we ask our school administrators the following questions. With the answers to these questions, we learn what policies and procedures may need improvement, and where schools may even be exceeding our expectations:

1. Does the school have a policy in place to ensure background screening for all employees of the school? Are teachers, crossing guards, teaching assistants, nurses, cafeteria workers, maintenance people – virtually all paid employees – screened?

2. What type of background screening is conducted on employees? Is a national criminal background check conducted? Is the school conducting drug and alcohol testing?

3. Does the school permit parents, grandparents and other family members to volunteer?

4. Are non-familial relations (i.e., area residents, nannies, family friends) permitted to volunteer?

5. Is there mandatory background screening for all school volunteers – whether they are family members or non-familial relations?

While some schools engage only in limited county or state checks, the national criminal background check offers the most comprehensive way to investigate someone’s criminal history within the United States. A national criminal background check searches for criminal and county court records, correctional facility records, and sex offender, terrorist and most wanted criminal records. National criminal background reports show current and historical felony convictions and misdemeanor offenses.

Federal and state laws strictly regulate drug testing procedures in order to protect the interests and rights of employers and employees. Should teachers be randomly drug-tested? Practices vary across the country. Teacher drug testing was the subject of court cases in North Carolina and West Virginia, where educators argued that time and costs associated with random tests would be better spent in the classroom. Hence, it is no surprise that if our nation’s teachers are not subject to drug screening, the volunteers are also getting a free pass. Every school should include a careful review of its state’s laws, as well as teacher’s contracts and union agreements, when developing a background screening policy

In addition to wanting to serve the best interest of the students, many school boards are open to the idea of background screening because they understand the risks they take by not doing so. The school itself is likely to be held responsible if a child is placed in danger from a volunteer or an employee. For the safety of our students, parents’ peace of mind and fiscal health of the school, it makes sense for schools to implement a comprehensive background screening program.

As parents, we are the best advocates for our children’s safety, and schools should truly be a safe haven.

Parents, along with parent’s associations, teachers’ unions and school officials, should review the level of access volunteers are granted to the children when building an effective volunteer background check program. Children are our most precious resource and they must be vigorously protected. Ensuring that “wolves in volunteers’ clothing” don’t enter our children’s vulnerable world is of paramount importance.

About the author: William (Bill) J. Tate is President of, HR Plus, www.HRPlus.com, a leading provider of comprehensive employment and background screening solutions and a division of AlliedBarton Security Services, the industry’s premier provider of highly trained security personnel.

Notice: No compensation was received for sharing this very useful information with you.

August is National Breastfeeding Month

Breastfeeding is a personal choice that all mothers make and this trend is very healthy because breastfeeding provides so many benefits to both the mother and her baby. Chicago Healers Practitioner Dr. Marilyn Mitchell, MD, provides some of the benefits of breastfeeding.

· Nutrients and Enzymes- Babies who are breastfed take in nutrients and enzymes that are perfectly proportioned for a human infant. Bottled milk often comes from cows or soy and lacks the perfect blend of nutrients and enzymes that human milk provides.

· Supplemented Immune System- Breast milk also transmits antibodies from the mother to the infant, which are especially vital during the first few months of life when the infant’s immune system is immature and lacks the ability to produce its own antibodies.

· Healthier Life- Infants who breastfeed generally have fewer illnesses during the breastfeeding period than those who are bottle-fed and develop fewer allergies in their lifetime. Breastfed babies also tend to have less colic, fewer restless episodes, and better sleep patterns than bottle-fed infants.

· Helps Mom, Too- Breastfeeding increases metabolism, which helps with post-partum weight loss. It also helps with mother-child bonding due to the mutually pleasurable experience.

It is also smart for new moms to be aware of what they consume while breastfeeding, as it can affect their child. Here is a list of things to up intake of and things to avoid:

Do eat:

· Fresh fruits and vegetables (organic when possible)

· Protein sources (also organic when possible)

· 8-12 glasses of water, juice, herbal teas

· Calcium rich foods (dairy, greens, legumes)

Avoid:

· Alcohol

· Caffeinated beverages and all soda pop

· Foods that bother the infant (spices for some)

· Preservatives

Tips provided by Chicago Healers Practitioner Dr. Marilyn Mitchell, MD. No compensation received for sharing this information with my readers.

Top 10 Signs You Need to Cut Your Kids Off

(Inspired by the book How to Raise Your Adult Children)

10. The number of times your kid says “I love you” is eerily similar to the number of times you give him money.
9. You plan a nice romantic getaway with your spouse. Your kid shows up at the airport with a packed suitcase.
8. Your kid wants to get into your bed when has a nightmare. He’s 30.
7. Your sweet daughter took out a life insurance policy on your life.
6. Your grown son wants you to cut the crust off the peanut butter and jelly sandwich you made for him.
5. Your twenty-nine year old informs you he’s getting married and his wife is moving in.
4. You came home and your twenty-nine year old adult son who lives at home is in your closet…trying on lingerie.
3. Your twenty-five year old baby wants your bedroom, so he can be more comfortable while he’s finding himself.
2. Your daughter becomes CEO of a Fortune Five Hundred company and wants to do an add-on to your house.
1. Your thirty-four year old baby wants you to take off the parent controls on your computer.

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